What's For Dinner?




Isn't that always the question? What's for dinner? If I had a dime for every time I asked, and in turn was asked that question, I'd be able to pay my Visa credit card off.  =)
Well I'll tell ya what's for dinner tonight...... TACOS!
Oh, but no, no, no, my friend.....you must forget what you think you know about  the unsatisfactory and fattening tacos of yesteryear.  I'm gonna take that traditional boring taco and "Zhoosh" it up a little bit.

This weekend I might have overindulged on my diet a bit. Ok, I did overindulge. 
Today we're getting back to business. Here is my rendition of healthy (buy yummy -I promise)  taco night. Featuring my rainbow taco bar. By the way, I mentioned at work today, I was making a taco bar and they said ..."Vanessa. You do realize there is only two of you at home, right??" And again I say.....no need to be unfabulous about it.
Gosh, why must they always be the pin to my balloon?! -___- 


The Breakdown 
Let's start with the meat. You can do ground turkey, ground beef or ground chicken. Usually, whatever is on sale works just fine! I went with lean ground beef. Depends on how healthy you wish to eat. A drop of olive oil in the pan to help it brown. Sprinkle with a little Adobo, onion powder and garlic powder. I do away with that packet of taco seasoning - it's nothing but garbage. I used to do half a packet, but now I just do away with it altogether. Whether you're eating healthy or not, it's just orange, salty grossness and it's a watered down way to "season" your taco meat. In addition to those dry spices, I added a healthy squirt of ketchup, a few dashes of A1 Steak Sauce and some dashes of hot sauce - holy flavor! So good! I would have thrown in some worcesteshire sauce if I had some, but if you do, by all means amp up that flavor.
I wish I could give you an exact recipe with perfect measurements for everything, but we do "sprinkles" and "dashes" and a lot of eyeballing around here! I am no chef by any stretch of the word- I just make stuff I enjoy and I share what I think other people might enjoy as well. 



You know how I know this recipe is good? My husband - "Mr. Steak & Potatoes..... and Pizza" is a very tough sell on new foods or foods in general. We sat down tonight to eat and a few bites in he says..."What did you do to the meat? DAMN! This is good!"......BAZINGA!


Taste The Rainbow
Soggy lettuce? boooooo! Garden tomatoes? Eh. We can do better.

- I started with my purple cabbage slaw - the one I made two weeks ago. Seen here.

- Plum tomatoes. I feel they are firmer, crunchier and tend to hold up better. No sog.
I like their bright red color also. Garden tomatoes tend to look like a washed out orange?
If you want me to stay on this diet, I'm gonna need a little more enthusiasm, Mr. Tomato. 

 - Avocado. I know, not your typical taco condiment (unless you're going with guacamole).
I want no bells, no whistles. Straight up, cut avocado. No salt, no lemon, nothing added.

 - 2% reduced fat shredded cheese. You can't tell the difference between this and full fat shredded cheese. I guarantee it.

- Reduced fat sour cream. You can go fat free if you'd like. To me, the full fat is too thick and rich and the fat free is too watery. Reduced fat is juuuuust right. Like Goldilocks and her porridge.

- Regular bottled taco sauce.

Now obviously, you can omit any ingredients you don't like as well as add in anything you do like. The rainbow taco bar is endless. You can do black olives, cucumbers, sprouts, radish, shredded carrot, etc. Do what works for you. 




 Check that bad boy out. Who wouldn't want to eat that?! 
I ditched the fried taco shells and bought whole wheat tortilla skins. Set the oven at 350, warmed them up for about 5-7 minutes to make them toasty but still pliable.

The sweet tang of the slaw,  the crunch of the tomatoes, the cool creamy guacamole, the cheese and then the zip of the flavored meat - ugh this taco was everything to me tonight. I had two. And that  is totally ok because I loaded up on my rainbow of veggies and had a small serving of the lean beef. The textures are there, the flavors are there and the shitty tacos with all of that salt, fake flavor and fat is not!

Another tip I learned when watching your weight is to build the taco in reverse. Most of the time people pile on the meat and then their veggies and toppings. To control myself, I load up the taco with my "rainbow" and then sprinkle the meat on top and do a lil' dollop of sour cream.

This was so good, look what's for lunch tomorrow.....


Taco salad! I did incorporate salad greens this time since I am nixing the tortilla skins. 
Gonna need a bit more of a base. I piled on my cole slaw, plum tomatoes, avocado, shredded cheese, ground beef,  splash of taco sauce and my reduced fat sour cream.
Leftover healthy food at dinner always helps me stay on track the next day.
I actually get full and there's no guilt.

Hey.....it might even allow for a 3:00pm chocolate chip cookie!

Happy eating y'all! Hope you zhoosh up your taco night too!

xo
V.V.!






Happy Birthday V.V.!




I am now 34. Yeah....let's let that sink in for a minute. Whatev. -___-
The fact is, we're all going to continue to get birthdays and get older and there's no stopping it. 
I could mope and be depressed or I could celebrate it anyway because it's happening and it's coming whether I like it or not. I choose to celebrate. I will always choose to celebrate-  for that is just who I am! Here's how it went down this year....

I wanted a quiet birthday because I am just coming off of an epic year with my wedding and moving and all of the accompanying celebrations in association with that. I just wanted to chill out, have a good meal and enjoy myself. Especially since there was a blizzard on it's way.
Next year for  35, I'll get "tunrt up" as the kids say.

I took the day off from work - it's a sin to work on your birthday. It's in the bible. No kidding.
I'm pretty sure it's the parting of the Red Sea, thou shall not kill, Noah's Arc, don't work on your birthday. Not in that order though, but it's in there. Because I have such gall, I took the next day off also. Because I didn't want to be plagued all day with "It's my birthday! Yay! I have to go to work tomorrow Boo!." Nope.  I took two days. My boss wanted to literally wring my neck. Hey! That's what vacation days are for, sir.
Thank you kindly.

On the last Friday of every month my Long Island girls (I call them that because a. I am the only girl from Queens and B. my friends are divided among two groups - the Long Island girls and the Brooklyn girls) get together at someone's house to catch up and do girl's night. Since my birthday was on the horizon and our hang out was scheduled for Friday, the 28th, we went to dinner to have a mini celebration and back to Corinne's house for our usual pow wow.
Thank you ladies for taking me out - I had a lovely time. Thank you Clascy for strongly suggesting I change my mind and step out to have some fun. I did in fact have fun! Sometimes the best birthdays are the ones not planned and on a small scale.



March 4th, 2014!



I decided to make my own cake this year. Just kinda wanted everything low key. Didn't feel like getting the typical bakery cake, didn't feel like searching for this complicated recipe to make a cake from scratch......I went to the supermarket and picked up a box cake and frosting in a jar!
Yeah, that's right. I said it. Box cake bitches! 
34, I'm not about impressing anyone but myself. I am going to choose to do what I want, not what looks good to someone else. I'm sick of the pressure to overdo things and make everything perfect, to outdo someone or something, to constantly upgrade, to be better than anyone else and feel like I have to keep up with people or what my peers are doing with their lives, and the pressure I put on myself to always outdo myself isn't ok either. I just simply want to be. Whatever makes me happy, I'm about it and what makes me unhappy, I'm not about it anymore.  It's that simple. What it looks like to anyone else or what they feel about it, is no longer my concern. Look at that, 34 and I'm already getting wiser! Box cake made me happy this year. Strawberry Duncan Hines and chocolate fudge icing. Boom.
Let me tell ya, that was a good cake! I look for the cakes that require oil in the batter, makes it so moist and soft. The worst thing on earth is dry cake. Ack!


Next up, lunch with my husband at The Cheesecake Factory! I haven't been there in a long time and I didn't want to go to some fancy restaurant and possibly not enjoy my food - I didn't feel like traveling to the city and making a big deal about it all. I was hungry, I love TCF, done.
I ordered a Peach Bellini Cooler which was basically a bellini on steroids - frothy and cold and sweet and delicious! Happy Birthday to me! :)


Next up? a little mall shopping. Shopping is my favorite pastime so it only made sense.
I fell in love with these Tom Fords. I made John snap a pic of me so I remember what they look like. I didn't buy them but they are now on my radar. For anyone that might want to know, my lipstick in this picture is Mac's "Snapdragon". Sold out online - try in store.

I was disappointed in the mall overall. I feel like since I've become one with the internet, there's nothing in stores for me anymore. All of my shopping is done online unless its a cosmetic or perfume I see in person. The variety just isn't there. Anyone else feel like that???

That night when I got home, I did my birthday shopping online. Got some goodies.
I'll post that this week maybe.


Couldn't leave the mall without a birthday treat - love me some macarons!
$5 for two cookies......smh....that's why they're a treat!
John was like......$5?!? For what?! I put one in his mouth and then he said 
"Ohhhhhh damn these are so good!" - Now he knows why. 
And there you have another macaron fan.




My family was coming over for cake on the evening of my birthday so I did what I do best - decorate and make everything super bougie!
I said I was staying home and having a quiet birthday - I never said it would be unfabulous! 
I am still me, after all. 
I was feeling the black and white and gold theme.
I shopped for some things online and some things I already had.

Black and Pink sequin tablecloths  - borrowed from my job. 
Shout out to Prestige Caterers - they put the "bread" and the cloths on my table! <3
(I can't say I bring home the bacon because we're kosher! ;) )




Black cloth dinner napkins  by Bed Bath & Beyond 



This must have been the "Am I really 34 years old!??! It's not fair!!!" face. Sheer disbelief.
My cake looks good, no? I thought it was cute. I made a nice little design with 
my cake icing spatula. 



I hope it comes true xoxoxoxoxo



Enough with the sentimental - lets get on with the gifts!
My family gave me cash which is always appreciated because I have a wish list a mile long and I like making a dent in it every once in a while.
Funny story about this watch. I have been eyeing the Burberry watches for a while. I haven't spent good money on a watch since the Michele watch I bought myself when I was 25 years old. Since then I bought some MK watches, a few misc cute watches but nothing significant and I felt it was time to buy another "nice" watch. I kept coming back to the Burberry watches and I settled on this one. It's classic, pretty and it's got that chunky look I like.
I was at Macy's Christmas shopping one evening and I took a walk over to the watches to browse again. The woman at the counter told me they were having their friends and family sale in two weeks and everything was 25% off. Well that was all I needed to hear. I knew that was my birthday gift. Now to convince my husband of the same thing.....
 I don't know how I did it and I honestly don't know how he agreed to it so easily but I SOMEHOW convinced John that we should buy this watch now for the F&F sale and make it my birthday gift. He said ok.....I still don't know how I got him to do it (maybe he agreed so easily because the Playstation 4 was coming out around the same time and he had ideas of his own! Actually, now that I think about it, HE bamboozled ME! Well it worked because we both got what we wanted lol) but we bought it and put it away and it hasn't seen the light of day until now. I promised myself I wouldn't wear it until my birthday.
Also, I think it's cute that my husband and I now have his and hers Burberry watches.
I bought him one for his birthday a few years ago and he still wears it because it's a well made, handsome watch and won't go out of style. I already have my eyes on another one.
I have a materialistic addiction. Can't help it!


This is celebration part two. On Thursdays, my Brooklyn girls all get together to watch our TV shows and hang out. We usually order in, sometimes there's a bottle of wine and we all dress comfy and gab all night. Since my birthday was Tuesday, I volunteered "Thursday" to be held at my house. I asked the girls to come in their pajamas so we can have a 
"Pajama Jammy Jam-Birthday Edition" Thursday.
Thanks to Michelle and Jessica who came two weeks ago and graced me with this bottle of wine I held for a special occasion!
We usually watch Vampire Diaries and Reign but we just kinda hung out this week.

Thank you Felicia for my beautiful flowers and my gift and thanks to Diana, Danielle M and Danielle T for their gifts. Thanks for letting me host "Thursday" on the other side of town.
Much appreciated! xo


Some of my fab things. I WOULD post a pic of us drinking wine and eating our dinner but I think they would kill me! So I will just post this:

Thanks everyone for another great birthday. I know some of my friends wanted to help me celebrate (I did not forget you Scott ,Suzy & Michelle) and I love them for that.
I promise next year for 35 I'll actually leave my house and we'll do it big!

So this was 34......let's hope this year is good to me as all of the 30's have been.
Got some gray hair and some small lines by my mouth *eye roll* but like my brother 
Jason always says...."I'm too blessed to be stressed". 
Thank you god for another healthy & happy year.

Thirty Fo' and I'm back for mo'!!!



March Wish List




For those of you who might not know (or care!), March is my birthday month. March 4th to be exact, so I consider March to be my special & lucky month, naturally.  Coincidently, St. Patrick's Day also belong to the month of March so it's double luck for me! It's only March 1st but I have already had some much needed luck today- the timing couldn't be more perfect. Let's hope that continues for me and all of us. Now without further ado, I give to you my March wish list.....because mama is gonna do some birthday shopping with my birthday loot pot o' gold!!





Coach Bag
I used to be a huge fan of Coach when I was much younger. Then they started with the double CC logo and the pastels and the really cheesy stuff and they lost me. I grew up and upgraded and never looked back - UNTIL NOW. I don't know who took the design reigns over there but I am in love with Coach again. They have really gotten back to their roots which is beautiful leather, well structured bags and super chic accessories. I am all about their new collections.

Kate Spade Desk Calendar
I'm re-doing my desk at home. Too bad I didn't work on this project in January...duh, Vanessa!

Nike 2014 Air Max Sneakers
I love sneakers. Lately, the crazier the colors, the better. I like really bright and funky kicks in the warmer months. They just feel fun!

Gap Floral Henley
I ordered the dress in this print last week and was completely disappointed because it's totally sheer! I will sadly be returning it. However, I feel like the shirt version would be ok with a nude bra underneath .....and a nice tan. lol 
Floral is huge this season and I just can't NOT own this print.

Victoria's Secret "Vacay" Perfume
Vacation in a bottle. There's nothing else to explain.

Bite Beauty Lip Crayon "Grape"
I tried this on at Sephora two weeks ago. I liked it. Since I can't stop thinking about it, I think I like it more than I thought.

Tory Burch Panama Sunglasses
Dude. These are bad ASS! I love the two tone look. Gots to have em'.  Yes ma, more sunglasses!

House of Harlow Sunburst Necklace
I love HOH and I have a few pieces from this line and I really would love to add this one to the collection....such a pretty 'burst' of color. See what I did there? Burst??

Bougie Hat
My brother Jason used to call me Bougie (get out your urban dictionary) and now my husband has gotten on the band wagon and calls me bougie too......I admit, it's true. I am bougie and I'm proud. :)

UGG "Hedy" Sandals
I love wedges. I can never get enough of them. Maybe because I'm short?
Either way, it would be nice to throw on my Uggs all year long! 

ITunes Card
I haven't bought music since before the wedding. I am ready to go HAM (don't put your urban dictionary away yet!) on itunes and load up the living sh*t out of my itouch! Nothing beats fresh new music when Spring rolls around and you're driving with the windows open on a warm night......my fav!


Sophie Hulme Wallet
Love her stuff. It's pink. I want it.

Tasha Statement Necklace (similar)
The original sold out. I knew I had good taste....

Ok guys, so private message me for my mailing address so you know where to send all of these fabulous birthday treats you were so kind to buy me! ;)